About failure or `when things don’t go as expected´.
Failure is a loud and very closed word. A synonym for frustration and disappointment when a plan, dream, idea or project has an unwanted result.
It is a word that connects us immediately, when heard or pronounced, with the feeling of fear. When we feel fear the body reacts with all its chemistry and a big drama starts…
In order to live how we want, we need to find our own definition of it, we need to pronounce it our own way. Maybe learning the word in another language could help us… maybe studying it,
writing it several times, singing it , drawing it, dancing it or even hugging it…
In the comfort zone everything is sorted out: no fail, but equally, no grow. We are trapped and limited by our own safety.
If you are lucky enough, you realize that you don’t want to live without trying; that you would rather say: “I do not want to wonder all my life: Why I did not try?”
Life is about trying and if it does not go well, it is OK. It is fine because what
we call failure is actually a result. The result of having taken a
decision that brings us closer to achieving a dream, the authentic desire of being providers of ourown happiness.
“The greatest inspiration is to continue having dreams” someone said.
Trying to fulfill your dreams, your desires, your deep longings and then moving towards them, brings you closer and closer to achieve them.
We made a mistake, we tried and if we don’t get the result that we expected or hoped for, we go and try again.
In most cases, when we are exhausted of failing is when we are closer to achieving what we want.